It's another post inspired by a response to my call for topics! This is from my friend Angela: "How about how to keep it (paper, stuff to do, etc.) from
getting completely out of control so that you are faced with a giant project
and don't know where to start and it just keeps getting worse?"
This is a pretty complex question, but I think it's also a pretty common experience. Under ordinary circumstances, stuff seems to pile up almost on its own (and even breed more stuff!). Then, when there's a big project to do, the stuff seems to accelerate its piling, and the result is overwhelming and almost paralyzing—and at the worst possible time, too.
Let's tackle the "how to keep stuff from getting out of control" part first. The boiled-down answer to this is: give all your stuff a home. Everything you own, from your clothes to your toothbrush to your files, should have a designated home. Not only does this make it much easier to find stuff (so you don't have to think every night, "Dang, now where did I put that toothbrush?"), it keeps things from piling up when they're put "to the side."
All your papers need a physical home. Your important, irreplaceable stuff should be housed in a safe deposit box. The stuff you don't need to act on right now should be housed in reference files, and the stuff you do need to act on should be housed in some form of action files until you are ready to start doing it (then it's fine to put it out on your desk).
This means, essentially, that you have to carve out a space for everything you own. Not only that, you have to carve out some time for it as well: time to put it in its home, time to do whatever action the item requires, time for maintenance, etc.
This might sound like a lot of work, like a lot of space and time to devote to just stuff, but I assure you, you're already putting in that much space and time for your stuff. You're giving any un-homed stuff space that you need to work in and you're giving it the time it takes to find it, relocate it, work around it, etc. You're also putting in a lot of mental energy, usually in the form of stress and worry.
So the answer to the "how to keep stuff under control" question is this: be deliberate about it. Designate homes for all your stuff, and designate time (even if it's just in short increments) to put your stuff in its homes and/or do what the stuff requires. The initial investment of time and space might feel like an imposition, but you'll get both back once you've got a home for everything.
If you find yourself being reluctant or resistant to devote your finite space and time to a particular piece or category of stuff, that might be a sign that that stuff isn't that important to you and it might find a better home with someone else—or in a recycling bin. Always remember, my dear friends and readers, your stuff exists to serve you; you do not exist to serve it.
On Monday, we'll answer the second half of Angela's question and talk a bit about sinking your teeth into a big project. In the meantime, do you have a home for everything? Let me know in the comments!

